Assertive?

Assertiveness Has Got To Be Thee Most Important Means Of Communicating, With Not Only Yourself But The People Around You Aswell. Sometimes I Feel Like a Prisoner, I Feel Trapped. Being The Assertive Person That I Am, I'm Almost Always Expected To Extend My Kindness To People In A Way That Will Sometimes Only Benefit Them. In Particular, People Who Have Trust Issues, Or People Who Are Arrogant, Needy And Selfish. My Emotions Play A Big Role In My Life, And For The Very First Time I Burst Into Tears In The Middle Of Prayer All Because I Was Feeling As Thou My Self-Esteem Was Being Robbed Off Me.They Don't Care, They Don't Even Wonder Or Even Think Of How They Kill A Person Inside, With All The Dimining And Detering Of One's Character. I'm Just One Of Those People Who Are Naturally Assertive :-) I Always Make Sure I Express Myself In An Ordely Manner, And I Love Feeling Confident In Expressing Myself Openly And Honestly. We Are All Not Perfect And We All Happen To Be Human, But Why Can't People Get Their Needs Met Without Offending Other People?!!

Give Value To Your Time.

Do You Value Your Time? How Much Value Does Your Time Have In Your Life? Is Your Time Of The Essence?

'If Your Love Was All I Had In This Life, That Would Be Enough Until The End Of Time.' -Justin Timberlake

Time Is Just One Of Those Things You Have No Control Over, But You Have Control Over What You Do With It. A Woman Very Dear To My Heart Was Recently Taken Away From Me And Being A Single Mother Of Three, She Played The Roles Of Both The Mother And The Father And Was The Strength Of The Whole Family. My Granny Saw Only The Good In Everyone, And Taught Me How To Care. Words Could Not Describe How I Was Feeling For Real. Part Of Me Was Missing, With Nobody To Listen. Another Part Felt Guilty. I Hoped For More Time, To Thank Her For Her Love, To Spoil Her, And To Capture More Memories Of Us Together. Bleeding On The Inside And Crying On The Out, I Realized  How Much I Just Wanted Her To Know How Much I Value Her, How I Wish I'd Spent More Time With Her And For Her To Experience That Amazing Moment Of Life, With Me.  My Love For Her Is Unconditional. Someone Tell Her I Apologize And It Happened Over Time.

Adding Value To Your Time, Leaves Room For Nothing Else But Positivity And Progress. Quit Spending Your Time On People Who Don't Bring Any Positivity In Your Life, In fact The Less Time Spent On Certain People, The More Your Life Will Improve. How Much You Value Your Time Is Direct Proportional To How Much You Value Yourself. I Sometimes Wish I Had More Time With My Granny, But Time Was Up. Remember That Time Cannot Be Reversed; Stop Wasting Your Precious Time, Especially If You Have The Ability And The Time To Change What Happens Tomorrow. I Extend The Love I Have For My Granny, Until The End Of My Time.

-'biso Mlambo

Start Living Life For Yourself

Unfortunately, The World Is Full Of Manipulative Idoits Who Will Only Make It Harder For Us To Live. Yet Life For Me, Is Not Only About Living, Its Also About Living For Your Purpose. Our Downfall As The Youth, Is In Us Conforming To Society's Idea Of What We Should Be, Instead Of Focusing On What We We're Put On This Earth For... Knowing What Your Purpose Is In This World Enlightens You As A Person And Enables You To Channel Your Dreams Into Reality. Get Yourself Together, Be Selfish And Start Living For Yourself. 

 -'biso Mlambo